Attachments and Aversions

這幾年每逢此刻，都是回顧的時刻。回顧過去四年有了什麼進展，新生活模式有了什麼改變。三不五時，還是有前同事，或朋友的朋友來跟我八卦以前的事。🤷‍♀️

Our parents taught us not to cry, to work hard, to show ourselves in a particular way in order to earn approval and love. We are taught that is good to what we want - a good job, stability, creature comforts, a loving spouse - and to fear the loss of these things. - Doug Silsbee

對過去的依戀，是前進的最大阻礙。